the house thatwomen built.
Oxley AI is a small, women-led team in Toronto building romance-first AI companions, with ethics, privacy, and craft at the center.
besties in business.
Founders Caitlin and Natalie have spent 3 decades navigating life's ups and downs together. From divorce and kids to coming out as queer, they each bring a uniquely female perspective.
our shared mission.
Oxley AI™ aims to re-center women's needs and bring attention back to the full range of female desires, both in and out of relationships. We design and build products that prioritize safety, emotional labor, consent-forward interactions, and the variety of human experiences that are often overlooked.
Our vision is to make a real difference for women everywhere through technology that truly understands and serves them. It's why we built the book boyfriend experience for romance readers, and attention without an agenda for everyone else.
we're rebels with a cause.
We are not tech bros looking to sell your data. Here's what that means in practice:
Women-centered by design
Unlike competitors built around predominantly male communication preferences, Oxley AI is shaped by women's desires for emotional connection, romance, and intimacy.
Ethical operations
We prioritize ethics at every step: our AI respects user autonomy and promotes healthy interactions. Read our design principles.
Privacy you can check
We spent extra to custom-build anonymized, safe infrastructure: no ads, no trackers, nothing following you around the internet. Most startups don't bother. We know how much privacy matters to women.
Cute not crass… unless that's what she wants
A choose-your-own-adventure experience, from sweet and tender to spicy and adventurous. She guides the vibe.
Oxley AI is for women, by women.
This is your space to explore whatever sparks your curiosity, without feeling judged, pressured, or expected to be anything other than yourself.
You can talk with Oxley AI characters about anything: your day, your work, your life, your questions, your obsessions. He's always there, always ready to listen, and always wants to know more. They check in with you periodically to see how you're doing, and they're always there to help you explore whatever you're interested in.
We're a small team of women building this with the depth and nuance that we'd want in our own lives. And we’re just getting started.
in good company.
Oxley AI is built inside startup programs from Google, Deepgram, and Canada's NEXT AI incubator.
Press or partnerships? Visit the press page or get in touch.
come check in.
The app is live on the App Store. See what a women-built companion feels like.
Oxley AI is an 18+ app.